Parallel Talk and Self Talk for Language Development at Home

During a child's early years, it's important for parents and caregivers to help promote language development. Using simple techniques like parallel talk and self talk at home can help facilitate language development, especially if the child hasn't started talking yet.

Understanding Parallel Talk

Parallel talk involves narrating a child's actions as they play or engage in activities. For instance, if your child is building a tower with blocks, you can describe their actions in real-time:

• "You're stacking the blocks so high!"

• "Place the blocks on top."

• "Oh no, it fell down!"

Exploring Self Talk

Conversely, self talk entails narrating your own actions aloud. For instance, when blowing bubbles for your child, you might verbalize the steps:

• "I’m going to open the bubbles."

• "Twist the cap. Take it off."

• "I’m going to blow a big bubble. Ready, set… blow!"

• "Wow, that was a big bubble!"

These techniques introduce new words and demonstrate the meaning and function of language without pressuring the child to produce words. By describing activities in real-time, you're aiding them in grasping the meaning behind these words.

Through these methods, you create an environment rich in language exposure, fostering a deeper understanding of vocabulary and language structure without forcing verbal demands on the child. It's an engaging and effective way to facilitate their language development during their early years.

Author: Danica Federe M.S., CCC-SLP, CLC